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So what the hell do I even want now anyway?

Published about 6 hours ago • 1 min read

Hey Reader,

Last week I said I'd write about the difference between shoulds, wants and needs, and that's something I've been exploring over on Substack, as well as in real life:

Needs are defensible, and wants often have to argue for themselves.
Nobody can deny you just a few minutes to yourself or something that you really need on a basic level, but the wants are so much harder. I found it difficult not just to get permission from others to do them, but to get permission from myself. That was the hardest and first hurdle to overcome: even to state them to other people. I couldn't even state them to myself.
A lot of my “wants” are often tied to “shoulds”. My brain seems to default to “I want to do X, but I should be doing Y.”
When I finally cleared some space and asked myself what I wanted, the answer was just: “I don’t know anymore.”

That's the blank feeling - and I've made a mini audio course to help you begin to find out.

It's called So What the Hell Do I Even Want Now Anyway? Four short audios and a workbook for £12, and by the end you've found one thing you want, in your own words, and gone and done something about it.

It's for women who've spent years putting everyone else first and now find it hard to say what they want. If that sounds like you, you can find more info here:

Big love,
Sarah

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Wild Rose Path

For women in the in-between.

For the woman whose life has stopped fitting, and who wants to find out where she actually stands. For the woman who suspects the way back to herself might be through something older and slower and closer to the earth than anything she's tried so far. Each week I write about life transitions, plant wisdom, and seasonal rhythm... real letters, not polished advice. When you join, you'll get The Stile, five questions that show you which landscape you're actually standing in right now, plus the plant ally that grows there and a small five-minute practice to do.

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